Drifters, Dreamers, and Doers
March 3, 2024•274 words
There are 3 types of people in this world-
Drifters: Those who do not think or care about future outcomes.
Dreamers: Those who think about future outcomes, but don't care enough in the present to take action.
Doers: Those who think and care enough in the present about future outcomes to take action.
I find myself moving down that list as I grew up.
From someone who really didn't care, to someone who dreamed but didn't take any responsibility, and now to someone who assumes control over outcomes.
I would pin this personality growth towards 'Doers' down to consuming 3 particular pieces of media:
- A video about the Standard Marshmallow Experiment (Youtube link)
- A Ted Talk (and later a book) on Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck (Youtube link)*
- A video about investing by Ali Abdaal (Youtube link)
*I don't think it's necessarily that one, but close enough.
These 3 really triggered a change in the way I think:
- That I am able to control my destiny, or at least I have the power to exert control over the things that are controllable.
- That hard work now will pay off later.
- That failures now are fine as long as you learn from them, and you shouldn't be scared of trying things for fear of failure.
I hope you might find the videos interesting.
Reflection:
I've been asking myself for a couple of years now how I developed an action-oriented growth mindset during high school and/or my early years in university.
I think I've finally been able to pin it down to these 3 main trigger points of information/influence.